The best way to put this together is by visiting a Kitchen Showroom that showcases a wide variety of Kitchen Styles, Accessories, Materials and Samples.
Usually, this kind of Kitchen Showroom is staffed by knowledgable and experienced staff that can guide and assist you to put your wish list together. Take note of the Kitchen Displays and the quality of the Cabinetry in the Showroom.
Ask questions about any aspect of your upcoming Kitchen Renovation that you feel uncertain about.
Note: If you are not having a Custom Made Kitchen, then your choices would be from a limited range of styles, materials, colours, accessories and there would be a limited amount of input